Showing posts with label Junebug. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Junebug. Show all posts

October 06, 2012

The Line That Changed My Life

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There are very few moments in life that I vividly remember as "life changing". Being accepted to nursing school, Ben proposing, and our wedding day are some of the moments that stick out in my mind. 
Finding out that I was going to become a Mommy tops them all.

October 6, 2011: I was on my way home from getting a spray tan for my brother-in-law's wedding. I stopped by the store to pick up a few things, and as I passed by the home pregnancy test section, I shrugged and picked one up. Ben and I had recently discussed starting a family-we were comfortable in our careers, had just bought a house, and figured it would be a good time to try. I assumed it would take a few months or maybe even a year...
After I got home, I casually went upstairs to take the test. (Ben was playing golf). I laid it on the back of the toilet and actually forgot it was there. I went about my day...laundry, I think. After about 10 minutes I realized I never checked the results. I glanced at the test stick as I walked to the trash can to throw it away...and something caught my eye. TWO LINES! WHAT?! My hands began shaking. My mind was racing. Rowen stared at me as I frantically paced around the house yelling "TWO LINES!" 


 I took 4 tests...just to be sure!


I had to wait FOUR hours for Ben to get home. We had lots of family in town (staying for the wedding) and as everyone sat down to eat lunch, I paced around, waiting for an opportunity to tell Ben. Finally, he went upstairs to take a shower, and I cornered him. I was so shocked, I didn't even think about telling him in a special way-I just handed him the test. His response? "No way." and "Do you think it's a boy or girl?"


Two days after I found out! 
(We were surrounded by family, but kept our secret until I was 12 weeks along!)

Every day, Ben and I marvel at our little miracle. What did we do to become so blessed? How did God choose us to be parents to our precious Junebug? I'm sure glad He did!

Our first glimpse

Our miracle
 
  


June 10, 2012

39 Weeks

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(Blogging in reverse!)

39 Week Stats:

Size: Watermelon (is this supposed to make me feel better about delivery?)

New Developments: flexing limbs (no kidding) and rapidly developing brain

Symptoms: Early labor :)

What I'm looking forward to: finding out if Junebug is a he or a she!

This picture was taken right before we left for the hospital :)




June 04, 2012

Final Nursery Reveal!

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What a relief to be completely finished with Junebug's nursery! I know that s/he probably won't use it for the first few weeks, but it feels so good to have it finished and ready to go!
(To read about our progress, go here, here, and here!)

Dresser: changing table and supplies. Anne Geddes print above
(I still want something for that left side-might be more diaper changing supplies!)

The crib: Crib skirt & sheet made by Grandma Starr 

Prints above crib:
Bought these frames from Michaels ($25 for 3)

I bought this scrapbook paper from Hobby Lobby- $.59 each!

Framed scrapbook paper=brilliant!
(Once Junebug is here, we will add the monogram)

Closet wall

Dry erase board
Created by my Mom using our fabric!

Window Valance
Made by Grandma Starr

Cozy nook
Side table & lamp-Ikea

Bookshelves
These are actually picture ledges from Ikea that Ben painted

Tree Mural
Painted by Alyssa
(I will be adding newborn pictures in the future)

This jar contains ribbons that were used to measure
my belly at my shower-they match our nursery perfectly!

This music box was mine as a child
It plays "Eidelweiss"


As I look around our finished nursery, I am so moved by how many people played a part in our dream nursery becoming a reality. Ben spent countless hours painting, assembling furniture, and hanging things on the wall. Our dear friend Alyssa did a beautiful job creating our tree mural. Grandma Starr was gracious enough to make a crib skirt, valance, quilt, and sheet for us. My mother created a unique dry erase board using our own fabric. Even our baby shower guests played a huge part in getting our library started!

Junebug is already so loved and is not even here yet! It truly warms my heart!


May 31, 2012

38 Weeks

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Today, I am 38 weeks and 3 days pregnant. Part of me cannot believe that we are already here-so close to meeting our little Junebug. But there are times that I think, how am I still pregnant?! I feel so blessed by this miracle!

We saw a midwife today-here is our update: I am now 2cm dilated and 70% effaced and that little head is moving down! Woo-hoo! Our CNM said we have "a good-sized baby" but we shouldn't really worry about a giant baby at this point. If I wanted to be induced next week, it would probably work out very well since my body is already sitting on go-ready for baby! In the meantime, operation induce-labor-naturally has begun!

38 Week Stats:

Size: Pumpkin! (Around 19 inches and 6-9 pounds)

New Development: Starting to lose the vernix from the skin. Bug might have an inch of hair by now (or more...based on my heartburn!)

Symptoms: I really thought I would be totally over it by now but I have to say that I still feel good overall! Work, however, is a different story. A 13 hour shift on your feet is exhausting to anyone, but it's very demanding on a pregnant body. I'm still making it though- 4 more scheduled shifts!

What I'm looking forward to: Baby :)



May 28, 2012

Gender Reveal

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I almost tricked you, huh?

No, we still don't know the gender of our little bug! Ever since we learned that we were pregnant, and confirmed that we did not want to find out the gender, I have been entertained by all of the Old Wives' Tales surrounding this big mystery.
So, here is what the tales reveal about baby's gender:

1. The Highs & Lows- Belly: If you are carrying high-it's a girl; Low-it's a boy! Most everyone tells me that I am carrying low. So 1 point for Team Blue.

2. Heart Rate- A heart rate of 140 or above= girl; Below 140= boy. Junebug's heart rate has always been in the 150-160s. 1 point for Team Pink.

3. Sweet and Sour- If you are craving sweet stuff, it's a girl. If your cravings are for salty and sour, it's a boy. I am usually a sweets person, but during this pregnancy, I go for all things salty! That's 1 point for Team Blue.

 4. Chinese Birth Chart- An ancient birth chart that uses mother's age & month of conception. According to this, we have 1 point for Team Pink.

5. Drano Test- This one is a little strange, and I wasn't going to try it, but for the sake of equality (and a complete blog post), I tried it. Pee in a cup and mix in 1 Tbsp of Drano. Watch for color change. Green=girl; Blue= Boy. Mine was difficult to tell, but I would say it turned more green-ish. 1 point for Team Pink.

6. Even & Odd- This one comes from the Mayans. We look at mother's age at conception, and year of conception. If both are even or odd, it's a girl; If one is even and one is odd, it's a boy. 1 point for Team Pink.

7. The Key- Place a key in front of the Momma-to-be. If she picks it up by the narrow part-girl. If she picks it up by the round part, that's boy. Well, 1 point for Team Pink.

8. Skin- If you are breaking out like crazy, the tale says to blame it on a girl-she "steals" her mother's beauty. At first, my skin looked like a teenager's, but has cleared up quite a bit. Still, overall I would have to give 1 point for Team Pink.

9. Wedding Ring- Tie your wedding ring to a string and hang it over your belly. If it swings back and forth, it's a girl. If it swings in a circle, it's a boy. Mine swung back and forth for sure...that's 1 point for Team Pink.

10. Morning Sickness- If you had/have a lot of nausea during pregnancy, signs point to a girl. Little or no nausea=boy.  Definitely 1 point for Team Blue.

Wow! It's looking like girl all the way!

The one thing that this article didn't mention was mother-to-be intuition. I have said from day one (literally...the day I discovered we were expecting) that I think there is a boy in there. I guess we will have to wait and see...2 more weeks(ish)



May 25, 2012

All Our Bags are Packed

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We are all packed and ready to go to the hospital when the time comes! Ben hopes I will just go into labor at the end of a shift, call him and calmly say, "Hey, I'm headed downstairs to labor & delivery. Grab the bags and meet me here." Keep dreaming babe...

As a postpartum nurse, I see a wide range of preparation for the hospital stay. Some of my patients come in with enough luggage and supplies to backpack across Europe; Some are asking me for soap.  Although I [obviously] haven't experienced labor/postpartum first-hand, I have a pretty good idea of what is helpful (and what is completely unnecessary) during those days at the hospital.


Mustang thinks she is tagging along!


**This is based on my knowledge of my own hospital-be sure to take a tour of your hospital to find out exactly what you need**

What I packed (besides the obvious-clothes, toiletries, etc)

Maternity clothes- Some comfy tops and bottoms-mostly stretchy cotton. After delivery, *most* women look about 5-6 months pregnant still. It takes time for the uterus to shrink and go back to where it belongs! I have seen some women wearing jeans and other constrictive clothing and it just seems uncomfortable! Loose-fitting and breathable is best.

Towels- Yes, the hospital will provide towels. But I have seen what I do with those towels...let's just say I don't want to be wiping my face with them. I packed my own.

Snacks- During labor, eating is a no-no. BUT-in the postpartum period, my patients are always hungry. The hospital serves 3 meals a day, and we do have snacks available in between. But graham crackers get old. Especially for a breastfeeding Mom, it is important to keep up that caloric intake-EAT!

Ibuprofen- NOT FOR MOMMY! Never ever ever take your own meds from home while you are in the hospital unless it has been approved by your providers and your nurse knows about it! The ibuprofen I am packing is for Daddy-to-be. I have so many new Dads ask me for an Advil (stress, lack of sleep, uncomfortable 'bed', etc) and I can't just give out meds to anyone. Bring your own for Dad, or be prepared to go buy some!

Baby items- I have just a couple of baby outfits packed, including the 'going home' outfit! Most hospitals have diapers, formula, pacifiers, wipes, blankets, and tshirts for babies. Of course, most of my Moms are SO excited to start dressing their little one in the extensive wardrobe they have been preparing for months. The way I see it- this will probably be the only time that someone else has all the baby stuff-take advantage. Of course, we have the carseat in the car, installed properly! :)


Our going home outfits-wonder which one we will be bringing bug home in?!



Insurance Information- It is always best to pre-register with the hospital so you can take care of all of this before you are contracting every 5 minutes. I am bringing my info (along with my short-term leave info) with me just in case! And please...bring a pen!


*What made your hospital stay better? Anything I should add to the list?







May 24, 2012

37 Weeks

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Update from doctor this week: I am still 1cm dilated and now 50% effaced but the head has not dropped yet. We are still head down, just not engaged in the pelvis. There are a few things that could cause this:
-Junebug is just not ready...usually the head drops around 38 weeks
-Junebug is really big (great)
-Junebug is in a weird position
I have been asking all of my coworkers for advice on how to get a baby into position, so swimming, pelvic tilts, and a yoga ball...here I come!

37 Week Stats:

Size: Winter squash...the doctor estimated about 7.5 pounds right now

New Development: Lots of practice with suck, swallow, breathing (hiccups, anyone?)

Symptoms: I have trouble putting on my own pants...I'm a mess. I have really enjoyed the pool lately (until I have to get out and realize I am not, in fact, weightless).

What I'm looking forward to: Final touches to the nursery, then completely done!

I took this one from the front so you can read the shirt :)
**Please excuse my appearance-I worked today**





May 22, 2012

Nursery Mural

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I am SO excited to reveal our nursery mural. Remember that blank space between the crib and the dresser?



I have a very talented friend, Alyssa, who agreed to help us bring this space to life!

This was my inspiration:


Alyssa was a little nervous about painting a mural because she had never done one before. I just love her canvas paintings, and had faith that she could pull it off!
She had this great idea to project the image on the wall so she could get an idea of correct sizing and scale. Alyssa still free-handed the entire mural, but this gave her a guideline to work with since she had never worked on a 'canvas' this large!

Projected image:

Of course, Rowen had to be in the middle of it all

Artist at work

Partial



I like to call it 'whimsical'

We found these shelves at Ikea-it is actually a picture ledge that we flipped upside down

We Ben painted them the same color as the tree trunk

FINISHED!


I just love how it turned out, and I think it looks even better than my inspiration picture! I am still experimenting with pictures and other items that will go on the shelves-I will decide before the final nursery reveal!
Thank you SO much, Alyssa, for taking the time to do this for us. It means so much to me, and I just know Junebug will love it :)


May 21, 2012

My Work Shower

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My coworkers have been SO supportive and helpful during my pregnancy. When you spend so much time with the same people, they truly become family, and I don't know what I would do without my work family! They are all so excited for Junebug to arrive!

The ladies threw me a beautiful shower, and in addition to many individual gifts, they all contributed to a group gift- our Pack 'n Play, extra car seat base, plus a gift card with leftover money! WOW-Ben and I feel so blessed and loved!

Hostesses-Dawn & Kim

We had quite the food spread-I loved the cake!

This is what you get with a party at the hospital.
Notice the medicine cup scoop? I love it

Ben couldn't wait to try out our Baby Bjorn. Doesn't he look excited?
(that's a doll in there!)

Don't I have the best coworkers?! For anyone wondering, yes I plan to deliver at the hospital where I work, and no I don't think it will be awkward at all. I truly believe that my hospital provides the best care ever, and I wouldn't dream of going anywhere else. Plus, wouldn't you want to be surrounded by your family for such a huge life event?!


May 15, 2012

36 Weeks

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I went to the doctor yesterday (we are now going weekly-yikes!) and I am 1cm dilated and 30% effaced. The little head is still down and engaged in the pelvis! I'm happy with this progress because I hope it means that my body is progressing the way it should. Most of my coworkers don't think I will make it past 38 weeks. I would love to make it at least 39 weeks, but I would be happy just getting to June. I feel like I would not have accomplished my goal if I deliver before then, even if little bug is full term. We will see...

36 Week Stats:

Size: Honeydew (around 18.7 inches and 6 pounds)

New Development: Everything is pretty much in working order! At the hospital, we call babies who are born at 36 weeks "late preterm" -they need a little more attention but overall, healthy babies!

Symptoms: I am almost over it. Rowen follows me around *everywhere* just staring at me. I think she knows something I don't. I also discovered stretch marks on my belly this week. Bummer

What I'm looking forward to: Still a few loose ends, then ready for baby!

Wow-the belly is out of control

May 09, 2012

35 Weeks

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I have been so behind on weekly posts, but I have a good reason! You will see very soon :)

35 Week Stats:

Size: Coconut (about 18.7 inches and 5.8 pounds)

New Development: Hearing is fully developed, responding best to high-pitched noises. At this point, Junebug won't get a lot longer-just packing on the pounds!

Symptoms: I am incredibly uncomfortable at night-I almost delay going to bed because I know it will be a battle. Very worn down in general-but still loving it all (promise!).

What I'm looking forward to: Finishing up the nursery and other loose ends.